A family is a little world created by love

I love my little family of 3~

2011-05-04T19:37:00.000-07:00

It has been quite some time ever since I update this little space of mine, I’m sorry, was rather busy recently. Well, we have successfully chosen the unit that both me and my BbHus like it very much. Probably will get our new house in 3-4 years time, simply can’t wait for that day to arrive. Hehehe. Regarding the occupants that will be moving in with us will only be Sean, my Darling Boy and no one else. BbHus and I have agreed that we shall live alone with our little family of 3(Daddy Tan, Mummy Tan and Baby Tan). I will not be staying with my in-laws as I don’t wish have conflict with them. So it’s always better to stay alone, with our little family will do. :>

Dream Comes True~

2011-04-11T01:15:00.000-07:00

Yes, after a few failed attempts, we finally had gotten our queue number for BTO (SengKang), our new accommodation. Lol. Well, BbHus and I have been trying to apply for a new flat ever since last year. In total, we have tried applying for 5 times but every try is a failed attempt. The reason is because BbHus is still the existing owner of Bedok Reservoir flat, so our chances are slimmer. Count ourselves lucky this time round, to be selected out of 1000plus applicants. Lol.

At first, I can’t believe that we are being selected; I thought that BbHus is joking with me. But after he show me the confirmation e-mail then I realized, MY DREAMS COMES TRUE. Haha. Having a cozy home of our own is what I longed for and my dream finally comes true. Lol. Will be heading Housing Development Board to choose our unit, I’m so excited. We will be choosing a few units with BbHus this coming Saturday before heading there. In case the unit we want has been chosen at least we got back up few other units! Haha. Wish us good luck! Will be back with more updates, Stay Tunes!

A warm & cozy home is what I have been longing for~

2011-03-25T00:51:00.001-07:00

I want a king size bed and walk in wardrobe for our master bed room, I want to turn and decorate Sean’s room into a mini playhouse for him to play, sleep and learn in it. I got so much ideas and plan in my mind now on how I want to decorate my own house in future. And yes, finally my dream comes true, I’m gonna have my own house in 3-4years times. Haha. Just receive the email few days back stating that BbHus & I gotten the queue number for SengKang BTO. At the point of time, I thought that I’m dreaming but after double confirming it with BbHus then I realized I’m not dreaming, IT’S TRUE. Haha.

After a few failed attempts the previous time, I had already given up on it. Because from what I know is our chances of getting a new flat/unit is quite low, as currently BbHus still have a unit/flat on hands. But, we are lucky this time round. Haha. We managed to get a queue number for SengKang BTO and BbHus said that he is 100% sure that this time round we confirm will have a unit to stay in. Haha.

Simply can’t wait for April to arrive, BbHus say we going to receive the floor plan and unit number catalogue next month for us to choose. Haha. I think BbHus is more excited than me, he spend hours looking at the map and floor plan of the flat and google about fengshui to see which block or unit is the best for us to stay. He is behaving like an old man! Haha. But I know he meant well too. Okay, that’s all for today! Goodbye~

Lunch Treat~

2011-03-23T01:11:00.001-07:00

I’m feeling so full! Had a sumptuous meal with my colleagues at Soup Restaurant this afternoon, a big thank you to Leonard Goh for footing the bills! Haha. Overall, the food there is quite nice, but I find some of the dishes are quite salty and oily (at my own preference). Lol. I’m simply love having lunch with the whole department because we always have endless jokes to crack and not forgetting teasing each other. Regardless of our ages, we just mingle and mix around well with the rest; we are just like a big family, so united and cooperative! That’s all for today, Goodbye~

Group Photo

First few dishes

Look at my boss's expression!

Broken Heart

2011-03-21T21:08:00.001-07:00

“You’re such a control person and everything you decide for me.” said by BbHus during our argument yesterday. I nearly burst out of tears after hearing him saying that sentence to me, it’s so hurting. All that I have done for him all this while have been classified as ‘control’ & ‘decide for him’ to him. I never know I’m such a failure until yesterday, I never know that I’m such a lousy wife in his eyes.

I never know that asking you to accompany me instead playing game is called controlled. I never know that asking you to turn in early instead of playing games is called making decision for you. I never know asking you to cut down on your intake of consuming red bull is called controlled. I never know that whatever I have done for you and it’s for your own good are called control and making decision for you.

We have being together for 3 years, 3YEARS. I never know that all along I have been bringing you misery, causing a lot of troubles for you, making your life so tough and hard for you. I’m sorry, truly sorry.

Anyway, Thanks for letting me know what type of person I am in your eyes, thanks for letting me know where I stand in your heart.

Feeling rather low today~

2011-03-10T22:39:00.000-08:00

TGIF! Thank god, it’s Friday! It’s had been a happening week for me this week, unhappiness and bad luck seem to falls on me. Sian. My brother-in-law will be out tomorrow but I don’t feel happy at all. I feel rather worried; I worry that problems and troubles will start knocking at my door which I hoped not. I just pray hard that he could change, change for a better of course. A simple and peaceful life is what I asked for but why god can’t just grant my wish, it’s just a simple wish.

F M L

2011-03-06T18:54:00.000-08:00

Sometimes I really wonder is this the kind of life I want to lead for the rest of my life? Seriously, I hate my life; I hate what I am now.

Every March 2nd of the year, Marks our ANNIVERSARY~

2011-03-01T18:12:00.000-08:00

Nothing in this world could ever be as wonderful as the love you’ve given me. Your love makes my days so very bright, just knowing you’re my darling Hubby. HAPPY WEDDING ANNIVERSARY!

I'm Sorry

2011-02-27T19:17:00.000-08:00

Due to my carelessness, you fell and hurt yourself yesterday. If I could pay more attention to you that day, I guessed all this will not happened. BbSean, Mummy really hopes that the one that fell and get hurt was me instead of you. Seeing you crying so badly yesterday, really break my heart, I can feel the pain that you are going through, because you are my flesh and blood, I can feel what you feels. I’m so sorry, son. Mummy promises you that I will be more attentive and careful the next time round. I will not let you fell and bleed again.

Happy 2nd Anniversary

2011-02-23T01:30:00.000-08:00

Do you still remember the vows that we made 2 years ago? Do you still remember how happily we were two years ago while signing our marriage certificate? It just seems like yesterday, the memories are still so vivid in my mind. Soon, we are marching in to the next chapter of our life, I want to let you know, I still love you deeply.

To my Sweetheart,

Times files, coming 2^nd of March will be our 2^nd Anniversary. During this 2 years, we have been through umpteen of up and down in our life. Thank you for not giving up on me and be there for me whenever I need you. Although we do quarrel, do have cold war but my feeling for you will never fade. Honey, thanks for all that you have done for me, thanks for staying by my side, supporting me all this while. I want to you to know, you are the best hubby on earth, I love you wholeheartedly.

Your dearest wife,

Yan Ling

To my beloved Son

2011-02-20T23:56:00.000-08:00

I was crying so badly last night when I’m hugging my BbSean. I miss him so much even he is just right beside me, can you imagine how deep/much I love him?

I feel so apologetic towards BbSean for not spending quantity and quality time with him. I really hope that I can spend more time with him, be there for him whenever he needs me but I know I can’t do that for now. I need to work; I need to save money as I want to give my son a better tomorrow. I hope my son will understand that all that I’m doing now is all for him, I just want to let him know that I love him.

To my beloved Son,

I love the way you give me a peck on my cheeks every morning whenever I asked you to kiss me, I love the way you smile whenever I want to take a picture of you, I love the way you lays on my chest to sleep every night, I love the way you hold my hand and look at me every time you need attention. I love simply love every single thing about you.

I’m may not be the best mummy on earth but I really trying my best to be one, may not be the perfect one but at least an acceptable one. I may be strict at times, restrict you from doing and eating a lot of things, because mummy cares and worry about your health and I want you to keep and have good habit from young. I know Mummy have not being spending quantity time with you, but Mummy is trying my best to spend quality time with you. I love you, son.

Anniversary Trip

2011-02-09T10:42:00.000-08:00

Short getaway to Batam for our anniversary has been cancelled! I’m a bit disappointed that our trip has been cancelled because BbHus has something on that day. BbHus has to attend a graduation ceremony on that day, as last year he’s company send him for some courses and finally he finishes his courses around Nov 2010 and they are having a graduation ceremony this coming march. But on the other hand, I’m very happy and proud for him. He will be wearing the graduation gown and giving out speeches on that day, as he is the top 5 students of his class. I’m so proud of my BbHus, good job! Will be bringing BbSean along too, it must for us to take family photos on that day with BbHus putting his graduation gowns on!

Happy Chinese New Year to all~

2011-02-06T20:13:00.001-08:00

Happy Lunar New Year to all! Woohoo, holidays is over, back to work again. Brought BbSean for a haircut yesterday, as Mummylove say BbSean looks like girl with his long hair. Lol. Actually I like BbSean without hair too, he looks chubbier without hair but my dearest sister prefers BbSean with hair. Lol. Whenever I bring BbSean for a haircut, she will always warn me not to let BbSean cut botak because she say BbSean looks cuter with hair. Hehehe. I don’t know whether I’m BbSean’s mummy or her, because sometime she makes decision for me too. Lol. I love my bossy sister!

Well, I have an enjoyable CNY this year as this is the second year BbSean celebrating CNY with us. 2010’s CNY I’m having my confinement, so didn’t get the chance to bring BbSean out to bainian but we finally managed to do it this year, hurray! We went in & out of Malaysia during 1^st day of CNY, my aunt’s place during the 2^nd day of CNY and lastly my mother-in-law’s place during the 3^rd day of CNY. Again, times are spent wisely with my family & in-laws~

Gong Xi Fa Cai

Goodbye

2011-01-25T01:09:00.001-08:00

5 more days, just 5 more days, I hope I won’t be seeing you again after those 5 days. I know I shouldn’t sound so mean but I really pray hard and hope that I won’t be seeing you again. You never know that your existence have caused a lot of trouble for everyone. You never know that what you did or say is pissing us off. Everyone is trying their best to help you but you never ever appreciate what others have done for you, you are simply taking things for granted.

You are such a stubborn fellow, you don’t like people opposing you, you don’t like people questioning about your behavior, you don’t like people minding your business but you never know actually we are just concerned about you. You never try to put yourself in others shoes; in fact you don’t even try to understand that all that we are doing are for your own good.

You are such a selfish fellow, you only think about yourself, you only cares about your own feeling but what about ours, have you gave a second thought about our feeling? I guess no, all you think about is you, you, yourself but no one else. You are the worst person that I have ever met, thanks god that you are finally leaving, all our suffering can finally come to an end.

P/S: I really hope that you can wake up from that stupid idea, and stop being so stubborn and childish. grow up, Grow Up, GROW UP!

My weekend trip to aunt's place

2011-01-24T00:57:00.001-08:00

Nothing special about my weekends, I’m just repeating the same old duty every weekend! Lol. Went over to my aunt’s house to pay her a visit last Saturday with BbHus, BbSean, Mummylove & Daddylove. Aunt asked me about my plans of having a second baby. I’m like so shocked when she asked me about that issue. Hehehe. Actually, BbHus & I do have plans for a second baby. Currently, we are trying for a rabbit baby but we leave natural to its course. I don’t want BbHus & I to be too stressed up over this issue! Lol.

Bought four pairs of shoes for BbSean last week, he is having more shoes than his daddy now. So I can mix and match for him to wear when bringing him out! Can wait for him to start trying and learning to walk, I hope he can stop crawling and start learns how to walk after CNY! Lol.

Hypocritical

2011-01-20T18:34:00.001-08:00

Hypocrite à A person who pretends to be what he/she is not.

I hate hypocrite people, why does this kind of person exist in this world? They will always come around and sweet-talk you whenever they need help. But once you are worthless to them, they just dump you aside and ignore you and when you try talking nicely to them, they will give you all sort of nasty attitude and treat you like a pain in their neck. I’m so unlucky to know/ met one in my life.

Lesson learnt: she is just using me; I shouldn’t have believed her in the first place.

1. Stop acting like 1 kind soul, no one will appreciate what I have done.

2. Stop believing her, she is lying

3. Block all her contacts; stop her from asking any help ever again

4. I will never lend her my helping hands ever ever again!

My pillar & tower of strength

2011-01-19T21:03:00.002-08:00

My greatest satisfaction is to be by my Baobei’s side watching him grows up day by day, learning bit by bit every single day. He never fails to make my day with his smile. His smile is my energy, his kisses is my strength. I need him to be there for me whenever I’m feeling down, although he don’t seem to know or understand what I’m going through, but he knows how to give me a hug to comfort me or do silly acts to make me happy. Mummy love you so so much, my sonshine.

BbHus & I are not in good term these few days, have been quarrelling over small issues again & again. I don’t wish or like to quarrel with him; neither have I liked him to quarrel with me. But bickering is unavoidable. Sian. I just hope we can clarify things out and get back to normal again.

Precious's 1st Birthday had come to an end

2011-01-18T18:13:00.001-08:00

I have neglected my blog for exactly 10days! Dear blog, please forgive me! I have been kind of busy and tired lately. Lol. BbSean’s 1^st celebration had finally come to an end. A big thank you to all my dear relatives, friends & colleagues; thanks for being here with us to celebrate our precious boy’s 1^st birthday. Hehehe. BbHus & I had started decorating the house the night before BbSean’s birthday; we spent hours hanging up the decoration and making the balloon stand. Lol. At first, BbHus wanted to make a balloon arch and placed it at the doorway, but after measuring the doorway, we drop the idea of making the arch as the arch will take up a lot of place. Oh well, we just make a tall balloon stand for the doorway instead. Lol. I’m so glad that BbHus had put in so much effort for BbSean’s 1^st birthday. Thank you, my dear. You know, I really love you & BbSean tons tons. Alright, let my photos do the talking next..

Happy Marriage

2011-01-06T19:16:00.001-08:00

Every woman yearns for a happy marriage, so do I. Having arguments & a tiff with husband is unavoidable as we have different thinking, personality and different character. I do quarrel with my hubby too, we do show each other black face & attitude, we do ignore and treat each other like transparent before. I mean is very normal for couples to quarrel and bicker, it’s also very normal for couples to patch back/make up after bickering.

I used to be very unreasonable, stubborn, petty & hot-tempered person. I don’t apologize even it’s my fault or wrong, I don’t give a damn to how he feels; I only care about what I feels. I used to have the thinking that even we divorced, I will still lead a good life on my own; I can bring BbSean up with my own hands and I can live better without him. But my thinking changed after BbSean is out.

I don’t want BbSean to grow up in a broken family, I don’t him to be tease by other people saying that he do not have a father. I don’t want to influence him with all my bad points; I don’t want him to blame me for not being able to give him a healthy & happy family. I want to give BbSean a healthy family, with loving parents. I want BbSean to have a happy childhood. So I’ve decided to change for him and changed for my hubby. I want my hubby to be happy too, i want and like to see him smile; I don’t want him to be upset or frown because of me.

So BbHus & I make it a point that we should not start a fight infront of BbSean, we should talk things out instead of ignoring each other. And we promised each other that we should not talk about divorce again. Because now, is no longer the two of us, is three of us. We should stand in BbSean’s shoes and think for him too.

Now, my relationship with BbHus is getting better & better, although we still bicker sometimes but we will be back to normal after 5 minutes. Lol. Fate brought us together and makes us love each other. I think we should treasure this affinity ♥

Can't stop munching

2011-01-06T00:35:00.001-08:00

I’m munching & munching all day long. From 8:30am to 6pm, I’m munching all the way, be it snacks or tidbits, fried food or sweets. I just can’t stop myself from eating and munching. Even my boss commented about me munching all day long. Wahaha. Our conservation is stated below:

Boss : YanLing, why are you munching and eating all day long but you don’t seem to put on weight?
Me : I don’t know boss, I just can't refrain myself from eating.
Boss : Why life is so unfair? You are always munching but you don’t seem to put on weight, but look at me I grow fat even I don’t eat.
Me : Laugh out loud!

Isn’t my boss funny? Lol.

Baobei's Birthday is approaching

2011-01-03T06:42:00.001-08:00

Woohoo, 12 more days to my Baobei Sean’s 1^st birthday! I’m getting more & more excited! Lol. I have customized a birthday cake, a T-shirt, a banner, a guestbook, invitation cards & many more. Lol. I know I might sound exaggerated for customizing so many things for my Baobei, but I think all worthwhile, because he only turns 1 once in a lifetime.

You guys must be wondering whats the guestbook for right? I know it’s exaggerated to have a guestbook for birthday party, but I really don’t care about what others think. I hope all my guests that attended my son’s 1^st birthday to leave their birthday wishes in the guestbook for my son, so when BbSean grown up he will know& understand what had happened during his 1^st birthday and who had attended his first birthday. Muahaha. Like I said, I will make his first birthday a memorable one for him. :>

New Year Countdown

2011-01-02T06:55:00.001-08:00

I had a great time with my little family of three last Friday. Last Friday is the last day of 2010; I’m so happy to spend/celebrate the last day of the year with my beloved ones.

I’m starting to love public holidays & special occasions, I love my little family of 3.

EXCITED excited

2010-12-27T19:38:00.001-08:00

BbSean is turning 1 year old in a few weeks time but I’m still at a loss. I don’t know what to do or what to prepare for my son’s big day. Luckily, I have a bunch of helpful and resourceful colleagues to lend their helping hands. (A big thank you to Chin Papa, Patrick Papa, Leonard Papa & Angela) you guys rock! Lol. This is my son’s first birthday; I’m going to makes his mini birthday party an unforgettable one for him.

I have customized a birthday cake for him this morning, so I’m left with buffet, banner & decoration. Woohoo, I’m so excited! J

My Tower of Strength

Goodbye 2010, Hello 2011

2010-12-26T19:59:00.001-08:00

It will be a brand new year in a few days time! I hope it will be a better year for everyone!

2010 had been a wonderful & unforgettable year for me. As we have welcomed Bbsean’s arrival on 30^th Jan 2010, BbHus & I had our 1^st Marriage Anniversary on 2^nd March 2010 and we had celebrated many many special occasion/festival with BbSean’s existence. The best gift we have ever received this year is, BbSean. BbSean is the most precious gem that we had ever received; he is a gift from god to us. :)

My wishes for 2011: 1. I hope 2011 will be a better year for our family of 3, 2. I hope we can love each other more, shower each other with more care & concern. 3. I hope BbSean will be a smart, healthy & good boy throughout the whole year. 4. I hope everyone in my family will happy & healthy throughout the whole year of 2011. Lastly, I hope BbHus will love me more, a lot a lot more than now. (I know I’m greedy) :P

Merry Merry Christmas

2010-12-26T06:59:00.001-08:00

Well, I had an awesome & enjoyable Christmas this year, what about you? Lol. I have spent my time wisely with my little family of 3. We had our dinner at Seoul garden, family neoprints & tutu train rides after that. It’s our (BbHus&I) first time taking neoprints with my lil cheeky boy. Although he don’t seems like he is happy or willing to take the photos with us, but I think BbSean had enjoyed himself too. I love spending my time with my lil cheeky boy & BbHus, they never failed to make my day!

During the daytime, I have attended a mini Christmas party organized by my company. I had so much fun, joy & laughter that day. We had buffet for lunch and lucky draw session after that, what a sumptuous meal! Lol. This is my first time spending & celebrating Christmas with my colleagues; I never know that it can be so fun! Lol. I simply love Christmas! :>

P/S: Its my dearest Daddylove’s birthday today! Happy Birthday to you, we will always love you!

Family of 3

2010-12-22T19:31:00.001-08:00

Mummylove was so busy yesterday, she needs to cook and make Tang Yuan (glutinous rice balls) at the same time as it was Dong Zhi festival yesterday. Everyone will celebrate this special day by making and eating Tang Yuan (glutinous rice balls) together, so do I. Lol. I took a day off yesterday to look after BbSean myself, as Mummylove is very busy with her stuffs.

Spent my whole afternoon at home, playing, bathing, feeding & napping with BbSean, I love spending time with him, because he never failed to make me laugh and smile. Lol. BbHus & I brought BbSean out for a walk yesterday. We went to Tampines mall to get some fingers food and headed to Tampines Interchage to look for KOI. Wahaha. The queue was very long, I think we spent around 20minutes queuing to place our orders and around 10-15 minutes waiting for our orders. Hehehe. I love their chocolate milk tea with full sugar level (I know its fattening but I don’t care) so sweet and chocolaty! Lol. BbHus likes chocolate milk tea too but I force him to order ice cream milk tea for himself yesterday. Because I want to try the taste of the drink but don’t want to oder for myself, I worried that I might not like the taste so I asked BbHus to order instead. I know I’m bad to bully my BbHus, But I know my BbHus don’t mind that I bully him, Love you, my dear. Hehehe.

I really enjoyed myself yesterday; I love my lil family of three!

Stomach cramps, please go away

2010-12-20T17:56:00.001-08:00

Terrible stomach cramp is making me so uncomfortable & restless. I hate stomach cramp; I think stomach cramp is the most unbearable illness to me. I think I have to cut down the intake of cold drink & cooling tea, they are making my stomach cramp worst. Sian.

BbSean is so cranky this few nights, he refused to turn in early and he refused to drink milk too. All he does is to cry and scream at the top of his voice. I don’t know what is wrong with him, ever since we came back from BbHus’ cousin’s wedding, BbSean is behaving weirdly. Sian. I dont want to comment much about that day, I just hope that BbSean is not scare by them. BbSean, please be a good boy alright, Mummy love you always.

Long time no see

2010-12-19T18:25:00.001-08:00

Ian is simply adorable! Tracybabe & her Lil Ian drop by to pay me a visit yesterday. Lil Ian looks exactly like his mum, just like a photo copy version of Tracybabe. Lol. Even Mummylove say so too. So busy chatting with Tracybabe that I have forgotten to take photos with BbIan. Lol.

BbSean is so happy to see BbIan too, but BbSean was startled when he saw BbIan move and cry for milk, because this is the first time BbSean came across a newborn baby. Lol. BbSean seem to like BbIan very much, he keep staring and pointing at BbIan, so Mummylove asked BbSean whether he want a didi too (lil brother) then guess what is BbSean’s reaction? Lol. The answer is, he nodded his head! Lol. He nodded his head when Mummylove asked whether he want a didi too. He seems like he understands what Mummylove is talking about. Hehehe. Isn’t my lil botak boy adorable too? I love my lil botak boy. Xoxo.

BbSean is a naughty boy

2010-12-16T18:07:00.002-08:00

I didn’t sleep well last night because of my lil boy. He was so cranky last night, making noise non-stop and throwing tantrum on us; so what I do is to pacify him, begging him to be quiet as I don’t want to wake my parents up. After pacifying and begging him, BbSean did not stop crying but he cried even louder. In the end, everyone in the family is awake by BbSean’s crying. I really don’t know what to do with him; neither has he wanted to drink milk nor sleep. I have got no choice, to let Mummylove handle him because she is the only one that can handle my naughty boy.

Mummylove is the best, she managed to pacify and calm him down. While mummylove is trying to put him to sleep, she asked me & BbHus to catch some sleep as we still need to work the very next day. So we left BbSean with mummylove and headed back to our room to catch some sleep.

A big thank you to Mummylove for helping me out last night, I really can’t imagine handling BbSean alone, without you by my side. You are the best, Mummylove. I LOVE YOU.

Pink in health

2010-12-15T17:55:00.001-08:00

My MC for this month is increasing, that mean I’m falling sick more often nowadays. I don’t know what is wrong with my body/health. I’m getting slimmer day by day, even my boss say so. Sian. I’m trying to eat as much as I can this few days hoping that I can gain some weight back. Mummylove is very worried about me, so do my BbHus. Both of them suspect that I’m having symptoms of Thyroid because Mummylove was diagnosed with Thyroid few years back, so they advised me to go for a full body check-up as soon as possible.

I’m really very worried now; I really hope I’m not having Thyroid, as thyroid may cause in-fertilization. I DON’T WANT; I don’t want to be unfertilized, as I still want a second baby. So what I can do now is eat more tonic and exercise more, I want to be healthy again.

Looking forward to this coming Sunday

2010-12-14T18:10:00.002-08:00

1 more day to Friday, 2 more days to weekends & 10 more days to Christmas, I’m so looking forward to weekends and Christmas. Will be attending a chalet wedding with BbHus this coming Sunday, its BbHus’ cousin’s wedding. Lol. BbHus & I have been attending a lot of wedding this year but this is the most special wedding that I have ever attend. I really like the idea of holding a wedding at a chalet; it’s a creative and new wedding concept. Lol.

They will be having a tea ceremony in the morning, so BbHus & I need to be there early. As BbHus is older than him, so both the groom and the bride have to serve tea to us and call my BbHus as 表哥, me as 表嫂. My god, I’m only 20 this year but I’m already 表嫂, sound so old right. Lol. What to do, BbHus is so much older than the groom. Hehehe. Will be bringing my lil boy along too, I think my lil boy has already forgotten his 姑姑&阿媽’s (Aunt & Granny) looks. Lol. It has been quite some time since I last visited my mother-in-law as I’m quite busy with my work & my lil baobei. I think this coming Sunday will be a good day for us to have a family gathering or reunion. Happy Happy :P

My Lil boy is teething

2010-12-13T22:32:00.002-08:00

BbSean is TEETHING, like finally. Lol. His central incisor tooth is popping out to say hello. I’m so happy for him, all the pain and itchiness he is having all this while have finally come to an end (for the time being). Lol. I’m so glad that my BbSean has been a strong boy; he doesn’t have any symptoms such as low-grade fever, wakefulness or diarrhea throughout the whole process of teething. He is really my 乖儿子, I’m so fortunate to have him as my son.

Time files, one more month, just one more month to my cutiepie’s 1^st brithday. BbHus & I have already planned to hold a mini birthday for him at my mum’s place. I’m so looking forward to that day, can’t wait to catch up with my best friends, my relatives and colleagues. Lol. 小乖乖, Daddy & Mummy love you.

Argument

2010-12-13T06:17:00.001-08:00

Had a petty quarrel with BbHus last Saturday but we managed to solve it peacefully.
BbHus, I love you the most :D

I want a 2nd Baby

2010-12-09T21:07:00.002-08:00

Took a train and a bus together with my BbHus this morning, you must be wondering why he don’t drive right? Lol. Because he is having a meeting at one of the building in Shenton way, and as you know the parking fee there is damn expensive, So BbHus have to drop the idea of driving there as the meeting is going to last a few hours. Lol.

I want a Babygirl, Lol, have been pestering BbHus about the issue of bringing our plans forward instead of having a second baby 2-3 years later. Actually, after giving birth to BbSean, I have drop the idea of conceiving again, because the contraction and healing part is a torture to me, but I’m willing to go through it again for the sake of my BbHus & BbSean. I want BbSean to have a sibling (be it a baby boy or girl) to talk and play with. Lol. Do you think I should conceive now? Lol.

Anyway, BbHus & I is trying to register and enroll BbSean for those 豆豆班classes or childcare that is located near to my mum’s place, easier for me or my mummylove to pick BbSean up from school. Although I know BbSean is too young for any classes or childcare but I’m left with no choice but to enroll him if I’m planning for a second baby. BbSean, Mummy love you, you will always be mummy’s lil baobei okay.

080810 is over

2010-12-08T17:28:00.001-08:00

No celebration, no surprise, no gifts. Nothing was done yesterday, as BbHus was very busy with his work and report, he got no extra time for any celebration or gifts selection for me. Sian. But I have to accept the fact that work should always come first, as he is the sole breadwinner of the family. Although I’m also working but I don’t contribute to the family as BbHus don’t allow me to do so. Lol. He always tells me that I should keep some money for myself. After all I’m a woman; I should keep some money for myself as 私房錢. Hehehe. Back to topic, although BbHus did not get any gifts or presents for me, but at least he remembers that yesterday is our Monthsary. I bought a box of chocolate for him as a gift and I think the present suits him perfectly because BbHus likes sweet stuffs. Lol. I love you, BbHus. I want to celebrate many many Monthsary & Anniversary with you :P

Grow by leaps and bounds

2010-12-07T19:27:00.001-08:00

Today is the day which marks our 28^th month together, happy 28month to my dearest BbHus. We have been through thick and thin, high and low together; nothing is going to break us apart now.

I know I should not expect you to change for me, just like you don’t expect me to change for you. Now I’m learning to accept and love you for who you are. Thanks for tolerating my nonsense all this while, thanks for being there for me whenever I need you. I know it’s being hard on you to live and stay with me; I’m always throwing tantrum and attitude on you. I know I have not being a good wife, but please give me some time, I believed I will be a good wife someday.

Lastly, thanks for giving me a comfortable life and a happy family of three. Starting a family and parenting is never an easy job; I hope we can make mistake and learn together. I’m can’t wait to spend this special day with you. I love you & BbSean. You two are my tower of strength.

Monday Blues again

2010-12-06T11:21:00.001-08:00

My life is getting way to boring and dull, every day & week is the same old routine. Weekdays need to wake up early for work, after work I need to go straight home to take over Mummylove’s shift and take care of BbSean myself. And most of the weekends BbHus need to work, so I have to spent my weekends at home and take care of BbSean all by myself. Sian. I think this is married life right, I got no choice but to accept the fact that my life is meant to be like that.

How I wish I could bring BbSean out every weekends to do some shopping together, but I can’t. Bringing BbSean out is so tedious for me; as BbSean is putting on weight rapidly I just simply cannot carry him for too long because my shoulders & arms will start to ache after some time. I admit that I’m just being lazy, but it’s really very tiring for me to bring him out alone, as I need to carry him, a diaper bag and a baby pram around without anyone helping me. Sometimes, I really have the urge to learn driving so that I can bring BbSean out more often, as driving my own vehicle is always better than taking MRT or buses.

Daddylove is getting more and more naggy recently, he will nag and nag for hours; I think he is worst than my Mummylove now. I really hate it, when he starts nagging at me. I know whatever he does or say is for my own good but come on I’m already 20 and a mother of one, I know what I’m doing. But no matter how he scold and nag at me, I won’t yell back or try to argue with him. After all, he is my dad and I respect him as my dad. I think no matter how old I am, I’m still a kid/child in his eyes, he just wants to protect me and teach me the correct ways of doing things. Thanks Daddylove, I know you still love me and I just wanna tell you I love you too. Lol.

On MC again

2010-12-02T11:21:00.001-08:00

Was on MC yesterday again, due to gum infection and the affected area is spreading and it’s quite painful. At first I thought that it’s an ulcer so I didn’t really bother about it but the affected area is spreading and getting more painful. I’ve no choice but to seek my Daddylove for help, Daddylove take a glance of my wound and commented that it’s not an ulcer but gum infection. Daddylove suggested that I should consult a doctor so I went to visit my family doctor and I’m given 1 day MC and some medication for it. I felt so much better, as the pain subsided after taking the medicine prescribe by Dr. Grace. Thanks to BbHus & Mummylove for helping me to take care of BbSean so that I’m able nap in the afternoon peacefully without BbSean disturbing me. HeeHee.

BbSean is less cranky this few days, thanks god, I hope this will last. BbSean is behaving like a parrot now (better than being cranky), because he is copying or should I say learning the way we do things, e.g.: the way we laugh & smile, the way we talk, the way we drink and eat. He is learning bit by bit every day.

He is now behaving like the second YanLing (myself), he will copy the way I laugh, the way I smile, the way I comb my hair, the way I drink water from cup and the way I lay on my bed. Sometime I really can’t stand him, my god. Lol. BbHus told me not to reveal my bad habits in front of him, in case he copy/ learn all my bad habits. Wahaha. Then BbSean will really became YanLing number2, I think BbHus will go crazy if he has to handle 2 YanLings. Lol. Me, alone is giving BbHus headache already, can you imagine if he have to handle 2, my gosh, Lol.

My 1st Photoshoots

2010-12-01T18:28:00.001-08:00

It’s so fun to be a model. Lol. Took a day on Tuesday to help my ex-boss (Christina) with her spa photoshoots, I think she need some new photos for her pamphlets and website if I’m not wrong. Lol. Thanks boss, for choosing me as your model, I really enjoy myself throughout the whole process. Although the photoshoots session lasted a couple of hours, but it’s really a fun and good experience for me. Wahaha.

I’m so happy to see my ex-colleagues again, I really misses them very much, especially Kris. My god, I misses her damn much, miss the way she comment about people, miss the way she crack a joke, miss the way she tease me and I miss the way she get angry. I just simply miss everything about her. Haha. We have a great time catching up with each other, talking about our kids, our husbands and not forgetting our in-laws. Lol.

I just can’t wait to see them again; I think I should drop by and pay them a visit real soon. Lol. I can’t wait to see my photos too, they told me that overall I looks great, and I did a great job but I didn’t get to see my photos yet. Hope they will post it up soon. Please stay tune and wait patiently for me to upload my photos alright. Thank you. HeeHee.

Enjoyable Family Outing

2010-11-29T11:46:00.001-08:00

It’s my dearest Mummylove’s birthday yesterday, Happy Brithday to you Mummylove. Wish that you will stay happy & healthy always, I love you, Mummylove.

We have a sumptuous dinner together at Crystal Jade kitchen last night, so full and satisfied with the food. We order around six to seven dishes including: Claypot curry vegetable, sweet & sour pork, roasted duck, garlic scallops, mussels, apple pork ribs soup, fried egg yolk prawns. Lol. The waitress looks so shocked when we order so many dishes, keep on telling us how many dishes we had ordered. But BbHus don’t give a damn to the waitress, he just continue to order the food that we have chose. Lol. Overall, the food there is delicious, BbHus & Daddylove like the claypot curry veggie and they say it’s quite spicy and sour. A big thanks you to my dearest BbHus for footing the bills.

Lol. After dinner, we went to Ikea for a walk, as I wanted to buy shelving for my room because I bought too many ornaments but no place to display it. Lol. So we bought two DIY (do it yourself) shelves, one dining table and one cactus plant from Ikea . By the way, the dining table belongs to my Mummylove, she likes the table from Ikea that is currently advertising on TV. The cactus plant belongs to my brother, I don’t know why he like cactus so much. Lol. But I have ruined his cactus plant, because I pile everything we bought from Ikea on top of the cactus plant. I’m so sorry, MK. I will get you a new one okay. :D

BbHus was so sweet yesterday, he promised to let me be the one designing, buying & choosing furniture for our new house. Lol. Hope that we will be lucky this time round to be chosen as this is the second time that we are participating in the flat balloting. I want to have my own house badly ): (To BbHus: You better don’t forget your promise okay, if not you will definitely get it from me. Heehee :D)

After the Ikea trip, we went home straight to unload those DIY shelving and table that we bought from Ikea and we headed off to Tampines mall again. We wanted to surprise Mummylove with birthday cake and also to get Capitaland mall’s vouchers for BbHus’s working team. As BbHus is having outing at Pasir Ris chalet today with his crews & managers, they are having game & lucky draw session. He is going to have fun tonight, leaving me & BbSean at home. Lol.

BbSean & Me

MummyLove & Me

BbSean & Grandmom

Brother & Mummylove

Sister & Mummylove

BbSean & Grandpapa

BbHus & Me

Baobei BbSean

Malaysia Trip

2010-11-28T18:14:00.001-08:00

Drove to Grandmum’s house last Saturday to pay her a visit with BBSean, BbHus, Mummylove & Siblings. We have a lot fun & laughter with Grandmum, she is so adorable and funny and she likes to crack jokes that make us laugh non-stop. Lol. Spent most my time chatting with her, she’s indeed a good advisor but giving me good advice and teaching. Wahaha. Went for a shopping spree together with her and the rest, woohoo, I simply love shopping. But end up didn’t buy anything for myself; most of the stuffs I bought is for my Baobei Sean & Baobei Hubby. I’m behaving like a good wife right? Lol. Bought BbSean a Doremon tricycle, swimming float (wanted to bring him out for a swim at wild wild wet) a pair of Nike shoes, a Nike bottle & last but not least a pair of Garfield sandals from Mummylove (thank you, Mummylove). Wahaha. BbSean love/likes the Doremon tricycle damn much, keep making noise in the car while on our way back to Singapore, he just can’t wait to play with his favourite character. Like father like son, BbHus likes Doremon a lot too. Lol.

We had our dinner at MeiJing restaurant, our usual dining place. Uncle is the one that bring us there and he is also the one that foot the bills. Thank, uncle. Lol. Uncle is a very generous man, he order a lot of dishes despite only the few of us eating. He order shark’s fin, sweet & sour pork, roasted duck, yam tofu, dong po meat, fried sotong, luo han zai (so called mixed veggie), Claypot braised tofu & Cereal prawn. Yummy yummy. Lol. Thanks uncle, always have to let you foot the bills.

BbSean's Doremon tricycle

BbSean's Nike bottle

BbSean's Nike shoes

BbSean's Grafield sandals (Frm Mummylove)

BbSean's swimming float

Happy Birthday, Mummy(L)

2010-11-26T10:13:00.001-08:00

Are you excited about your weekends just like me? Weekends = FAMILY GATHERING/BONDING TIME. Lol. We will be making a trip to grandmum’s house in Malaysia to pay her a visit with BbSean, Mummylove & siblings; as Daddylove need to work so he won’t be joining us. I’m so looking forward to spend my entire Saturday with my amiable grandmum. Lol. I miss her nagging at me, miss her cooking, miss her smile and simply miss every single thing about her. Wahaha. But I guess she dun miss me that much compare to my BbSean, as BbSean is her first great grandson I think she definitely will miss him more than me. Lol. BbHus will be driving us there, so have to let BbHus turn in early tonight. Lol.

Coming Sunday is my Mummylove’s birthday; BbHus & I have decided to bring mummy out for a shopping spree and most likely we will be having our dinner at Crystal Jade restaurant/kitchen, all the expenses that I mention above will be fully sponsored by my beloved BbHus. Lol. Thank you, BbHus.

Lastly, I would like to wish my dearest Mummylove a happy birthday; hope that you will stay happy & healthy always. I love you, Mummylove.

Mummy, It's over

2010-11-25T11:32:00.001-08:00

3 days MC has finally come to an end, but I’m still in holiday mood. Woohoo, I think I have to chase away my holiday mood and start concentrating on my work. Was given 3 days MC is because I went to extract my second molar & second premolar teeth on Monday and my dentist said most likely I will have swollen face and gums for the next few days, so I’m given three days MC at one go. Lol.Have spent my long holidays wisely with BbHus, BbSean & mummylove, I love spending my free time with them. Lol. We went for a body massage on Saturday with mummylove, she seem to enjoy herself very much throughout the whole session, I’m so glad about that. I think it’s time for me to pamper my mummylove with massage treatment, retail therapy & whatever stuffs she asked for. Mummylove has spent all her youth, effort & time on me, I think it’s time for me to repay her back since I’ve already start working and grown up. Mummylove, It’s my turn to pamper you with my love, time & money. Lol.

Went for a retail therapy on Sunday as BbHus bought me a new iPhone 4, Thank a lot my dear hun. You are the best hubby on earth. Wahaha. Make a trip to Tampines & Bedok to get a new screen-protector and a hello kitty casing for my new iPhone 4, super love/like the casing and phone that BbHus bought for me. Wahaha. Now I have the same phone as my BbHus. Happy happy:P

Visited my dentist with mummylove on Monday as both of us need to get rid of our problematic teeth together, so daddy and BbHus took off together to accompany us. Wahaha. They treated us like princess & queen, they did all the house chores and look after BbSean for us. Lol. I’m really treated like a princess, all I do is to sleep and eat and sleep again. Lol. Shiok lehs. Can order my BbHus around and asked him to do things for me. BbHus is super nice lehs, he did not grumble or scold me on that. Wahaha. He just said that I’m behaving worst than that time when I’m pregnant that’s all. Wahaha.

A big thanks you to my beloved BbHus for being extra patient and sweet towards me this few days, you are the nicest man on earth, I love you, Hun.

I'm so looking forward to weekends

2010-11-19T17:12:00.001-08:00

I’m so busy with my BbSean and work lately, BbSean is getting crankier and workload is getting heavier. BbSean have been very cranky this few days, he refuse to finish up his milk and he refuse to sleep during the night time. Mummy and Daddy say might be the funeral going on at our void deck that make BbSean a little crankier than normal days, as baby/kid is very sensitive to funeral or coffin. Hope things will get better for BbSean after the ceremony ends.

I’m getting more busy with my work lately, as I’m assisting my boss with some report and meeting minutes, phew, I’m so stressed up where time he need the report immediately but I’m just half way through. So I have to skip my breakfast and rushed the report for him. Lol. I’m not grumbling, please don’t get me wrong. In fact, I’m enjoying myself, I enjoy working in a fast pace, as time really passes faster in this way. Lol.

Tomorrow will be the day that everyone is looking forward to, WEEKEND! Lol. I love weekends especially when BbHus is off for both Saturday & Sunday. Lol. Gonna spend my time wisely with BbHus & BbSean.

Thanks, BbHus

2010-11-16T11:42:00.001-08:00

Mummy’s birthday is approaching and I’m still wondering what to get for her as her birthday gift. At first, I suggested to buy a jade pendant necklace for her, as one of the jewellery shops is having promotion. But BbHus don’t agreed nor allow me to get/buy the jade pendant necklace from the jewellery shop as he worry the shop might be selling fake jewellery. Wahaha. Because my BbHus only trust those renowned jewellery shops like, Poh Heng, Lee Hwa, SK and etc. So he suggested that we should go to Poh Heng to get some gold accessories for mummy as gold is more worth money than jade. Lol.

So in the end, we went to Poh Heng to get our gift. me and BbHus have chosen a meaningful pendant for my mummy, the pendant is called ‘吉祥如意’ (means good luck). Hope she will like it. Lol. After getting mummy’s birthday present, BbHus suggested that we should for a massage, as BbHus and I are having body-ache and we seriously need a good massage badly. Wahaha. But I feel more worst after the body massage, because the massage was too painful, I can hardly sleep during the whole treatment. Oh my god, I never know that the 推拿 (tuina) massage is that painful until I’ve tried it. Lol. I was told that I’m having blood circulation problem and my body was too tense up that’s why I can feel the pain throughout the whole treatment, so she recommended me to visit her weekly for a massage treatment to improve my blood circulation and to let my muscle relax.

So BbHus had heed the therapist's advice and signed up a package for me and himself, as he find the massage treatment is very relaxing for him and his therapist had exert the ‘just nice’ strength on him, that’s why he really enjoy himself and sleep throughout the whole treatment. But for me, it’s really torturing throughout the whole treatment, I don’t know how many times I’ve told my therapist to be gentle with me but she just continue with her way. I don’t how am I going to survive for the next 10 treatment, I hope I can ask for a different therapist the next time when I visit. Wahaha. But anyway, a big thanks you to my BbHus for signing up a package for me. I love you, hun.

Congrats to Wahwah & Edward

2010-11-15T11:00:00.001-08:00

Good morning everyone, how’s your weekends? I have an enjoyable and fun weekend. Wahaha. Spending my Saturday at home with BbSean, playing, laughing and watching tv together. I love/like spending time with BbSean, I really enjoy being a mum. Hahaha.

Went to Mandrin Oriental hotel to attend BbHus’ poly friend’s wedding last night, with BbSean tagging along. Wahaha. At first, BbHus don’t like idea of bringing BbSean along, but I insisted of bringing BbSean along so he is left with no choice but to agree with it. But it is a correct move to bring BbSean along, cos everyone will come crowding around our BbSean and keep on praising my BbSean saying that he look super cute, he got big round eyes that look like me, he look more like me and so on. Thanks to all that have commented that my BbSean looks like me, which makes me super duper happy bout that, cos rarely got people say BbSean looks like me. Lol.

The wedding was grand, the ballroom was very spacious and well-decorated and I like the idea of the theme, Sunflower. Wahaha. Wahwah (BbHus’ poly friend) & her hubby have been dating/together for more than 10 years and finally they make up their mind to settle down and start a family, I’m so happy for her. Wahaha. I really very envy her lehs, her hubby bought her a diamond ring (more than 1 carat I think) as propose ring for her. The ring looks really nice and elegant. Lol. Actually BbHus also bought diamond ring as propose ring for me. Wahaha. He brought me to Lee Hwa jewellery and ask me to choose the propose ring myself. Isn’t my BbHus funny? Where got people bring their girlfriend to the jewellery shop and ask her to choose her propose ring herself de. Wahaha. But I really appreciated he did that, because his liking and mine is different, so is better for me to choose what I like. Wahaha.
Even our wedding bands too, I’m the one making the decision and choosing the design for it. Quote from BbHus: (As long as you are like the design and you are happy with it, I will be happy too.) Lol. I’m so glad that I have him as my hubby, thanks BbHus. Lol. Back to topic, after seeing her wearing the big diamond ring, I'm so envy about her diamond ring so I hinted BbHus on it.
Me       : Dear, our two year anniversary approaching hor? What you planning to get for me huh?
BbHus: Dunno lehs, what you want lehs? I get for you loh.
Me       : Wahwah’s propose ring very nice right, I think is more that 1carat lehs.
BbHus: You want the diamond ring too isit?
Me       : Yalor. Can I have one too? I think year- end sales is coming, you buy one and keep first next year then give me okay?
BbHus: Okay loh, I go see first! If the ring is within my budget I buy for you okay, but if I buy for you , you must wear it okay?
Me      : Deal!

Wahaha. Because I’m quite a rough person, I worry that I might accidentally leave some scratches on my wedding bands and propose rings so I dun wear it unless we have special occasion that we need to attend then I will put it on. Lol. I think I must start wearing it, so if anything goes wrong with that ring, it give me an excuse to ask BbHus to get me a new diamond ring.

Mummy love you, BbSean

2010-11-12T17:01:00.001-08:00

Woohoo, its Friday. Haha. Went to BHG yesterday during lunch time to hunt for milk bottles for my BbSean, as the current milk bottle he have been using it for 3-4 months already; I think is time to get him a new and clean milk bottle. Wahaha. I think BHG is having sales for NUK milk bottles, so I bought 3 at one go. Lol. After paying for the milk bottles, I went over to the toy apartment to look for toys for BbSean. I spent around 20mins at the toys department, choosing and playing with the toys. Wahaha. Don’t know am I choosing the toys for myself or my son, but dun get me wrong. I’m just trying and testing to see whether is the toy suitable for BbSean to play. Lol.

And finally, I came across this super colorful and cute scooter + walker. Oh my, I really like it a lot and I’m sure BbSean will like it. So in the end, I bought the scooter + walker too. Kekez. After buying the scooter then I remember that BbHus won’t be picking me up after work, as he was having gathering with his managers. Lol. Then end up I have to carry the scooter all the way from BHG back to office then from office back home. It’s so tiring..

Massage, Massage, I love Massage

2010-11-11T11:36:00.001-08:00

One day to Friday. Wahaha. So happy that weekend is approaching, can’t wait to spend my weekends with BbSean. Went for a massage yesterday with BbHus, feels so shiok after the massage, although some parts she (the therapist) might exert too much strength till I nearly cried out in pain but overall the massage is quite relaxing. Hmm, I rate it 8/10. Wahaha. After the massage, I’m craving for KFC so BbHus and I have KFC for our dinner.

Oh my god. I think we have overspent for this month, have to save money from today onwards, as Mummy’s and friends’ birthday are approaching. Wahaha. Planning to buy a gold braclet or necklance with jade pendant for mummy’s birthday, BbHus suggest that we can/should celebrate her birthday at crystal jade restaurant. Haha. What a good suggestion, as mummy is Cantonese, she surely will enjoy and like the food there.

BbSean’s 1yr old birthday is approaching too, I’m thinking of holding two birthday parties at two different places for him. Lol. But before making any decision, I have to start save save save money first :p

Family bond

2010-11-10T11:53:00.001-08:00

Went for a walk last night with BbHus and BbSean, BbSean was so excited when I carry him out of the house. BbSean is getting more haolian (proud) le, when he knows he is going out, he doesn’t want to wave byebye to his Grandpapa and grandmama. He will just look away and point to the lift. Wahaha. My parents really can’t stand him and guess what his grandpapa said? Grandpapa said: “Wa, you now haolian liao lo, go out don’t want to wave byebye to me, then when you are home, no one want to carry you then you will come looking for me. I don’t want friend you liao” Lol. My daddy is so cute right, isn’t he?

Actually, daddy really dotes and loves BbSean a lot. Daddy will called home every afternoon during his lunch break, to ask about BbSean and have a chat with him. Wahaha. Daddy will play and carry BbSean and walk around the house. Lol. Daddy is best at making funny face to make BbSean smile, make weird noise to attract BbSean’s attention. And in return, BbSean will do funny face and funny action that let daddy laugh like crazy. Lol. I think BbSean makes my daddy happier than I do. Wahaha. Good job, son.

Fuck off, Bitch

2010-11-09T08:52:00.001-08:00

Damn it, my mood was ruined by a bitch early in the morning. The fucking asshole walks towards me and tell me that my music is too loud and no one is interested to listen what I’m playing. And guess what, she scold me rude. Damn it. I’m not happy when she says no one is interested to listen what songs I’m playing in a very impolite tone already, then she still continue to say that I’m rude. This bitch has pissed me off. So I ignore her and continue to play my songs, guess what I did, I even increase the volume to the max. I think I also pissed that bitch off by not listening to her. I’m so unlucky to alight at the stop as her, she was beside me holding her phone high up, I dunno did she took my photos but I took her back view. Becos she walks damn fast like rushing to some place or she worry I will catch up her and start a fight with her. Seriously, I’m damn pissed off with this bitch, if I’m not in my office wear. I think I gonna scold her back. Bitch, count yourself lucky that I’m in my office wear, If I’m in home clothes, you definitely will get it from me.

May god bless you grow fatter and die of heart attack.

Happy Monthsary, BbHus

2010-11-08T14:49:00.001-08:00

Happy 27^th Monthsary to my beloved BbHus. Times really flies, we have been together have been together for 2years & 3 months le. Do you still remember how we come about knowing each other and start dating? Hope you do, my dear.

BbHus, I will always be there to share the happiness and woe together with you, and spend the rest of my life loving you. Will you do the same too?

I really don’t know what to get for BbHus this time round. Lol. Wallet? Polo T-shirt? Formal shirt? Belt? Shoes? Pants? New Handphone? Rings? Perfume? Lol. BbHus have all of the above that I have mentioned. So in the end, I bought him a Pierre Cardin keypouch for his car keys. Hope he will like it. Hmm. What will BbHus buy for me? An iPhone 4? Lol. Hope so ya, I have been pestering and hinting him a couple of time. Hope he will really get the phone for me.

My beloved is mine and I'm his

2010-11-06T14:38:00.001-07:00

Whenever I bring BbSean out for shopping or to market with mummy, he is always the center of attention. Wahaha. People will always crowd around him, saying that he is very cute and chubby and start playing with him. Lol. I’m so proud of BbSean, he is so popular among aunties, uncles, young kids and teenagers, Simply everyone. Lol. BbSean is really our 开心果, his arrival really brighten up our days, brought in a lot of joy and laughter into my family. Even mummy and sis also told me that they really can’t imagine days without BbSean’s existence. Haha.

I’m so happy that things are getting better between me and BbHus. We are more willing to sort things out by talking nicely rather than ignoring each other. People always say couples will quarrel over kid’s issue, I think is quite true. As both of us have different thinking of how to come about educating and teaching our son, we tend to have small conflict. But I think most importantly, both of us must agree and understand that whatever comments we made or suggest are all for BbSean’s good. So we just have to come up with suggestion/decision which both side agree on. I remember one time I was so angry with BbHus that I reprimanded him, but something that he reply me really makes me regret for being so harsh toward him. His reply was “I’m still learning as this the first time becoming a daddy, I’m trying to be a nice daddy towards my son, becos I never has one. Please be patient my dear. I wanna give my son the best that I can give.” My tears keep flowing out when I hear him saying this to me. As from what I know BbHus was a very pitiful boy when he was young, his daddy used to beat BbHus up when he is drunk, and his daddy dun give him money to eat or buy things. BbHus has been all the hardship that no one can imagine of.

From the day onward, I stop saying nasty things to him. As both of us are 1^st time being parents, there are still a lot of things we need to learn. No one is born perfect, we should not blame each other when thing goes wrong, we should encourage, support and be there for each other. BbHus, I believe we will be great parents someday. I love you.

Happy Deepavali

2010-11-05T23:10:00.001-07:00

Phew. Finally, BbSean is asleep now. Lol. BbSean is getting more sticky and naughty now, sometime I can’t stand him. Wahaha. Brought BbSean to a barber for a haircut this morning, as BbSean sweat a lot and long hair makes him uncomfortable. But BbSean hates to trim his hair, he will keep on fidgeting, cry and scream at the top of his voice while the barber is cutting his hair; even the barber also cannot stand him and commented that BbSean is a fierce boy. Wahaha. What a naughty boy right.

Out of sudden, feel like eating durians, so I drop BbHus a msg telling him that I feel like eating durians. And guess what BbHus did? He drive around the whole Tampines area just to get me durians, but in the end I still didn’t get the chance to eat durians becos no one is selling durians at the moment. Guess the durians season is over right. Never mind, shall have it next time then. Lol. Thanks BbHus for making the trip to look for durians for me, Appreciated!!

Poor BbHus

2010-11-04T11:21:00.001-07:00

BbHus wasn’t feeling well yesterday, he is having headache and body-ache. I think I have passed my virus to him. Poor BbHus, he can’t even have a good rest yesterday, becos his wife fall asleep while playing with BbSean. BbHus is left with no choice but to take over BbSean and put him to bed. I’m so sorry BbHus, I’m too tired. Muack.

But BbHus is damn bad, he record down the snoring noise made by me last night and play it infront of mummy and say this is the latest lullaby for BbSean, Lol. I'm like so stunned when mummy told me about that. Playful BbHus, he's gonna get scolding frm me tonight. Wahaha. *Angry*

Tracybabe is going to deliver bbIan by caesarean today, hope she and bbIan will be safe and sound. can’t wait to see bbIan. I’m so happy for her.

An apple a day, Keep doctor away

2010-11-02T21:01:00.001-07:00

Sick again, was down with slight fever and body-ache. Doctor Grace said that those are symptoms of viral infection. Lucky, BbHus was off yesterday, so he drives me to see doctor. After seeing doctor, we went to foodcourt to have our breakfast then head off to Giant (Tampines) to get BbSean’s diapers and powder milk. We went home straight after getting BbSean’s necessity, as I needed some rest badly. BbHus was crazy yesterday, I’m already feeling so giddy, but he still carry me up and swing me round and round, by doing this he is making my condition worse. Lol. But I love it. But BbHus, please do it when I’m sick. Wahaha.

My Beloved is mine and I'm his

2010-11-01T12:45:00.001-07:00

Hello, Singapore! I'm back!! Anyone misses me? Wahaha. I miss everyone in singapore, especially my sweetypie, BbSean. Thats why when I'm back, I kiss him all over his face. Lol. Bought alot of gifts/ souvenirs from Hongkong for my family, colleagues and friends and not forgetting my sweetypie. Haha.We went there with 2 small handcarry bags but back with 2 big luggages and the 2 handcarry bags that we brought over. And you know what, the 2 big luggage only contain gifts/souvenirs and nothing else. Can you imagine how much we spent there? Money is not a issue, as long as we enjoy ourselves(quote from BbHus). And I strongly agree with BbHus. Wahaha.

We went to Ladies market on the first day, Disneyland on the second day, Lantau Island, temple street and Victoria Habour on the third day and last but not least The Peak, Madame Tussands wax museum and 黃大仙 on the fourth day. We almost visited most of the popular places in Hongkong. Really enjoy the time spent together with BbHus, this blockhead of mine really makes my day. I can’t imagine how I am going to live without him by my side. Lol. We spent most of the evening soaking and chatting inside the bathtub together, sooo sweet. I gonna get a bathtub for my bathtroom when I get my new apartment. Wahaha. BbHus agree on that too.

Just some random photos taken. Wanna see more? (View my facebook)

Taken on Plane

Hotel Room

Nu ren street

Disney train

BbHus with Twins

My Beloved is mine and I'm his

2010-11-01T12:45:00.000-07:00

Just some random photos taken. Wanna see more? (View my facebook)

Taken on Plane

Hotel Room

Nu ren street

Disney train

BbHus with Twins

Lunchtime

2010-10-26T16:27:00.001-07:00

Went to BHG during lunch hrs to get NUK anti-colic teat and a new pair of pyjames for BbSean . He has been using the old teat for quite sometime already, its time to get him a new one. Lol. Mummy always think that its a waste of money for getting BbSean new milk bottle's teat and pacifier every 3 months. But me and BbHus dun think this way, we want to give our BbSean the best as long as we can afford it. Getting BbSean a good nipples and pacifier is extremely IMPORTANT, as I want BbSean to have a nice lips shape. Wahaha. Mummy gonna tell me off later for buying clothes for BbSean again. Lol. After getting BbSean's necessity, head off to Mcdonald for lunch, my colleague is so into the current promotion, monopoly game. She has been eating mac for the past few days. Good luck to you, my girl.

♥ Honeymoon ♥

2010-10-26T10:53:00.001-07:00

We are offically Husband & Wife on the 2nd of March 2009. Since then, we don't really have the time to go for a short vacation or honeymoon. As I'm still studying during that period of time, and BbHus is busy working and travelling. Lol. And I'm diagnosed pregnant around April-May. Thats the reason why we didn't have the chance/time for honeymoon as BbHus and mummy dun wan me to travel around during my first 3 months of pregnancy. Wahaha. So people, stop having the thinking that we have a shotgun marriage alright. I was already BbHus' wife before I'm pregnant.

Finally, me and BbHus can go for a short vacation/honeymoon now. I think both of us need a short break badly, as BbHus is so stressed up with work stuffs recently. BbHus, just sit back and relax the whole trip alright?

Gonna leave BbSean with mummy this few days when I'm not around. BbSean, please be a good boy when mummy is not by your side. Must have your meals on time and turn in early, remember not to misbehave and make grandma angry okay? Mummy love you, my cutie pie.

Lastly, a big thank you to my amiable and lovely mummy for initiating to take care of BbSean when I raised the topic on honeymoon trip. I really appreciate what you did for me, I'm so glad to have you as my beloved mum. Mummy, I ♥ You. You are the best Mum ever.

blessed little woman

2010-10-25T16:59:00.001-07:00

I'm so contented with what I have now, a happy and loving family of 3. Wahaha. Firstly, I would like to talk about my BbHus. BbHus is such a wonderful and doting man, he is patient, loving and sweet, simply a perfect man in my eyes. He is really is a good husband to me and a good daddy to my son. Remember the times when we are still dating, BbHus is super duper sweet; he will get me chocolates for me whenever I'm angry with him. He will fetch me to and fro from school with his bike. I miss the time where we used to travel around on bike, so sweet. Now, BbHus stop getting me chocolates as I told him not to waste money, as we have one more family member to support now. Lol. But BbHus still will get me bouquet of flowers occasionally to surprise me. Aww. So sweet right.

BbHus is really a nice guy; he is willing to move in with me to stay with my family. Actually, we do have a flat to stay in, but I'm not used to the place and environment, I dun feels comfortable staying there. So I told BbHus about that, BbHus actually agreed with my suggestion of moving in to stay with my parents. BbHus really sacrifice alot for me; he will do anything/everything for me as long as I'm happy. BbHus dote me a lot too, during my preggy period, due to hormones changes; he will give in to me and bear with my nonsense. He never failed to accompany me to my monthly routine check-up, he is there for me, encouraging and supporting me during the time when I'm delivering BbSean. BbHus also get/buy me gifts as a reward for me to thank me for going through all the pain just to deliver my son. I really appreciate what you did for me, I ♥ you BbHus.

Lastly, will be my BbSean, he is my flesh, my blood, my one & only son. BbSean has been a good boy ever since I'm carrying him, he dun give me much trouble, neither backache nor leg cramps. Even when BbSean is out, he is still my good boy. His arrival really brighten up my days, he brings lot of joy and laughter into my family. He's the bond that keeps me and BbHus close. BbSean make my life perfect with his existence, he will smile with me when I'm happy, and he will make me smile when I'm sad. He is my rock. BbSean please stay healthy and happy for me alright, mummy need you and ♥ you.

I don't need to be wealthy, live in big houses or own big cars. I just need BbHus and BbSean to be by my side. It will do.

Thanks god for giving me a healthy, handsome son, and a remarkable, good-natured BbHus. I ♥ my Family.

2010-10-24T17:53:00.001-07:00

Finally, BbHus is back frm Shanghai, miss him badly when he is not around. Lol. BbHus bought alot of souvenirs and yummy foods frm Shanghai for my family and not forgetting to buy gifts for me and BbSean. Lol. He bought a pair of lion dance shoes for BbSean, super cute when BbSean put it on. Lol. he bought a LV key pouch and a pair of couple watches frm world expo for me, but he only get himself a super mario t-shirt and a levis key pouch. Like so poor thing right? Lol. Its okay, BbHus, will get you more gifts when we go to Hongkong alright? Love ya tons, BbHus.

Day 5

2010-10-23T19:14:00.001-07:00

Another day spent at home with BbSean, so exhausted. Task today is to: 1.bathe him 2.sanitize his milk bottles and toys 3.cook carrot porridge for him 4.put him to sleep and play with him. Lol. BbSean is getting crankier and naughty recently, dunno whether is it due to teething. Hope everything will be back to normal when his tooth is out. BbSean be a good boy alright, mummy and daddy sayang you okay. Lol. Finally, BbHus will be back tonight, miss him tons.

Day 5

2010-10-23T19:14:00.000-07:00

Awesome Day

2010-10-22T10:29:00.001-07:00

Catch up with Tracybabe and Karinebabe last wed, this two girls ar, really make my day. Lol. Its been a long time since we met, as everyone is busy with their own stuffs. But still, I really enjoy the time we spent together. We simply can talk about anything/everything under the sun (not forgetting gossiping and teasing). Lol. It reminds me of that time when we were still schooling, so much fun and laughter, so carefree and happy. But there is one thing that I'm not happy bout them, they took more photos with my son than me. Lol.

Tracybabe & her Hus

Day 4 without BbHus by my side. I miss him badly. Time, please pass faster alright.

Day 4

Tracy's Big Day

2010-10-20T22:41:00.001-07:00

Congratulation to Tracy Choo Yi Ting, you are now offically Mrs Wai. I'm so happy for you. Lol. I'm so sorry that I'm late for your solemnization ceremony, as I couldn't hail a cab. I think its time for me to learn driving and get a licence, so I can use my BbHus'car when he is not around. Now, get back to topic. Lol. I'm so happy so see Tracybabe, her husband and of course her cute lil bump. Lol. She is now in her 36 weeks of pregnancy, that means we will get to see bbIan soon. So excited and nervous for her. Hope she will have a smooth delivery w/o Epidural. My dear girl, endure alright. Lol.

Day 2

2010-10-20T22:16:00.001-07:00

Day 2 without BbHus by my side, feeling so empty. I was on the phone with BbHus just now, he seems to be to enjoying himself there. And he said that he miss me badly. Aww. So sweet. Lol. Actually I miss you badly too, BbHus. 3 more days to go. Jia you jia you jia you. Hope time pass faster.

Day 1

2010-10-19T08:56:00.001-07:00

Starting to miss BbHus already. Should have treasure the time spent with him last night, I should not have ignored him. I promise not to ignore him again, but I failed to do so. I'm so sorry, my dear. But I just can’t help it, when I see you re-pack your luggage and brings out all the stuffs and clothing that i packed for you. I'm so sorry, BbHus. Forgive me for being such a willful girl.

Monday Blues

2010-10-18T10:01:00.001-07:00

Its Monday today, its a brand new day of a brand new week. But I dun seem happy or excited about it. I think is becos BbHus will be out of town tml and will only be back on the sat. Sad. I feel so uneasy when he is not around, I guess I'm too dependent on him. ):

2010-10-17T14:31:00.001-07:00

Feel so guilty sometimes, for being so obstinate and petty. I will throw temper and ignore my BbHus when I'm angry, sometime even its my fault I will also get pissed off and ignore my BbHus. But BbHus dun throw his temper at me even its my fault, he dun scold me, he wont even get pissed off with me. He will stay calm and patience and even apologise when its not his fault. His actions make me feel like I'm an unreasonable wife. Did I do alot of good deeds in my previous life thats why I'm able to have him as my BbHus for this? I have been asking myself this question a couple of times. BbHus have been a good boyfriend to me while we are dating and now he is still a good hubby to me even we are married. Am I a bit overboard for treating him this way? I think I am. BbHus is a sweet guy. He will get me whatever I want and try ways to make me happy. BbHus will ferry me to and fro from work even he is tired after work. Sometime I feel bad for treating him this way and I will ask BbHus will he regret marrying me? His answer is no, if he given one more chance to choose again, he will still choose me as his wife. I think its time for me to kick away my bad habit and temper and stop making BbHus sad and xinku le.

BbHus, I will change for you, I will be more understanding and will not throw temper at you again. I ♥ you.

2010-10-16T00:48:00.001-07:00

Another day spent at home. Lol. Just packed finish BbHus's Luggage, as he is leaving for Shanghai next week. I'm so kiasu, pack alot of extra clothing and undergarments for him. I think he gonna scold me when he is home later. Lol. But he will understand that I just want to play safe. Haha. Gonna miss Bb Hus when he is away.

2010-10-15T17:32:00.001-07:00

♥Wedding Vows♥

♥I, Soh Yan Ling, affirm my love to you, Tan kay Hong, as I invite you to share my life. You are the most beautiful, smart, and generous person I have ever known, and I promise always to respect you. With kindness, unselfishness and trust, I will work by your side to create a wonderful life together. I take you to be my lawful husband, to have and to hold, from this day forward, for better or for worse, for richer or for poorer, in sickness and in health for as long as we both shall live. ♥